The Gantt Report
African Americans face a number of serious problems. Joblessness, poor educations, poor housing, political exploitation, social degradation, crime and poverty are some of the concerns of Black citizens in the United States.
But one of the biggest and hardest problems that Black people and Black communities have to deal with is the angry Black woman!
Everyone that has ears have heard at least one Black woman say that, “Black men are no good” or something to that affect.
No matter what the race, creed or color, relationships are often strained. It is no secret that most couples eventually break up and most marriages end up in divorce.
If things don’t work out, oftentimes ordinary people try to move on with their lives but the angry Black woman is the least likely to let things go.
Too many Black women are or have been in failing relationships or downright bad relationships with the Black men that they chose to relate to or be with.
So what do they do? They take out their anger, frustrations and disappointments out on other men that are in their lives or those men that seek to have a friendly or committed relationship with them.
They will say, “I can’t trust you because my baby daddy lied to me”, “I don’t believe you’ll be faithful because the last man I slept with cheated on me” or “I can’t take your advice or suggestions because you may be like my last man and want to order me around”.
Women in the church say they love God and God’s so-called word but they don’t love the part of the Bible that speaks about a man being the head of his household.
In 2012, many women that don’t have a man or a good family don’t want other women to have good relationships.
Don’t take my word for it, but how many times have you heard women tell other women, “Girl, I wouldn’t let no N-word, treat me like that” or “Girl, why are you supporting that N-word. He ain’t gon’ never be nothing” or “He’s just like those other N-words!”
If you think that’s bad, some Black women bring that anger and drama to work.
If they had a fight or a bad evening at home, you’re going to have a bad day at work.
An angry Black woman doesn’t have to open her mouth. You can see that she has stayed up all night waiting on a partner that never showed up. You can tell by her red eyes that she has been crying.
And anything you say to an angry Black woman will get an angry response.
A mere “Good morning” will be followed by “What you talking to me for?” or “I don’t see nothing good about today”!
If a woman is unhappy and can’t make herself happy, how in the hell can any man make her happy?
An angry Black woman wants to control and instruct. You have to do what she wants you to do and say what she wants you to say. Anything else will hurt her feelings and be described as teasing her, making fun of her, disrespecting her, not listening to her or trying to control her!
The problem is an angry Black woman can easily piss off a calm, loving, responsible and caring Black man. And, when the man and the woman in a relationship both get angry, that’s when the relationship sparks begin to fly!
I feel for the brothers that are in a relationship with an angry Black woman. I can’t do it. I sometimes try but I have high blood pressure and I can’t take that relationship stress and drama. I won’t take it!
All I can tell the angry Black woman and others that seek to relate is that you have to take the bitter with the sweet. Whatever you like about your partner must be weighed against those habits and traits that you don’t like.
If you’re an angry Black woman, let it go. If you can’t let it go, don’t ever take out your anger on a friend, a coworker or an innocent male bystander.
