DEAR DATING QUEEN,
Ever since I had my baby girl, my husband has been acting different. He ignores me and stays out late with his friends. When I try to have sex with him he says he’s too tired. I think it’s because I gained weight. Maybe I should get lipo.
What would you advise?
Baby Fat
DEAR BABY FAT,
Don’t be so hard on yourself. Many women gain weight while pregnant and lose it naturally. There is no need to get lipo. Just exercise, get a personal trainer, eat healthy and don’t stress. You will lose the baby weight soon, so just be patient.
Talk to your husband and let him know how you feel. Inform him you are working out and will lose the baby weight soon.
Good luck.
DEAR DATING QUEEN,
I think I have an STD because it burns every time I go to the bathroom. I don’t know who gave it to me, my girlfriend or baby mama. I have unprotected sex with them. I love both of them in different ways, but I am unable to choose which one to stay with. I don’t know what to do.
Burning
DEAR BURNING,
Call and schedule an appointment with your doctor or local health department. You must get treated immediately. Tell your girlfriend and baby mama to get tested as well. Refrain from sex until you are all treated. During that time you need to do some soul searching within yourself and figure out who you want to stay with. Unprotected sex puts you and both women at risk for an STD, pregnancy, or heart break.
How can you say you love both women if you don’t love yourself enough to have protected sex? Creeping and lying is not the definition of love. Love is honest, protective, and unselfish.
Take care of yourself.
