DEAR DATING QUEEN,
I have been single for awhile now. I go on dates frequently but, the men I date turn out to be losers. They are nice looking, polite and well dressed but, they all seem to have emotional baggage, drama, or no goals. I don’t know why this happens to me all the time. Am I wearing a sign on my forehead that says “I love losers come date me, ” or something? This sucks! I’m scared to go on another date.
-Loser Magnet.
DEAR LOSER MAGNET,
I encourage you to continue dating because, dating will help you to emotionally connect with others. Dating isn’t about instantly gratifying the emptiness in your heart. Dating is a learning experience. Through dating you will grow and understand yourself and others better.
Nothing happens before the time. You may need some time to heal from the wounds of your last relationship. Patience is a virtue you will need in a relationship, so start practicing now.
Be more compassionate and less judgmental. We all have emotional baggage. Â So, have fun and enjoy your dating journey. The man of your dreams is a few dates away!
